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      05-27-2012, 07:17 AM   #2
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Nice to know the straight world deals with people just as flaky as the gay world. I've had that exact same experience dozens of times. I've had guy tell me what a great time they had, and ask ME out for the next time, only to flake out on me. They often act evasive, and leave me hanging, not knowing if we're on or not. Frankly, it's just rude, and shows a complete lack of respect for the other person's time. I have no problem if we're not a match - I don't take that personally. But when they jerk you around like that, it's more a reflection on them than you.

So don't take it personally.

One piece of advice I would give, tho - unless you're Donald Trump, a $180 dinner on the first date seems inappropriate to me. Might even be a bit intimidating. Just my 2 cents.
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