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      09-18-2014, 09:31 AM   #1
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Just when you thought.. /given up

(Apologies to Vanessa Williams-) Ever thought something wasn't going to happen, you gave up all hope .. and it comes back to you?

Well the Thai chick I had been obsessing over, stopped msging me about 1-2 weeks ago.. and she returned to Thailand yesterday.. and I wasn't a expecting it when she msged me "Hi" just now..

Share your experiences of having something come to you that you gave up all hope on..

(I don't have much hope for this thread.. )
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      09-18-2014, 09:33 AM   #2
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      09-18-2014, 09:35 AM   #3
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okay okay.. spam ON
or just kill this thread if it's too painful
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      09-18-2014, 09:37 AM   #4
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Oh Grim.

You need to lower your desperation and just be yourself, mate. Need to make the ladies obsess over you, not the other way around.
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jesus. get some mental help dude. You are going to end up stalking this girl if you aren't already. Let it gooooooo.
This is like 5th grade drama
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Oh Grim.

You need to lower your desperation and just be yourself, mate. Need to make the ladies obsess over you, not the other way around.
desperation ... i must have gotten used to it
rub some of your skill/luck on me bro

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jesus. get some mental help dude. You are going to end up stalking this girl if you aren't already. Let it gooooooo.
This is like 5th grade drama
looong past that pt.. yeah i think i should shut up now.. but no one was posting anything thought I'd at least make a fool of myself
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      09-18-2014, 09:42 AM   #7
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If something wasn't going to happen, and you gave up all hope, then by definition nothing could be coming back to you. What came back to you if something never happened in the first place?

Perhaps it is not that it came back to you, but in the absence of that which didn't happen - because it wasn't going to - something else, completely unrelated, actually took place, and came to you yet again for the first time. And this new something WAS going to happen, because it DID.

It's a beautiful cycle man. It's how I feel about bacon, and minivans.

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      09-18-2014, 09:45 AM   #8
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desperation ... i must have gotten used to it
rub some of your skill/luck on me bro
It's not skill and definitely not luck. Are you on dating sites by chance?


You need to make yourself desirable. Give them some mystery, don't throw everything about yourself into a single basket and toss it to the dogs. What's interesting about someone who comes off as desperate for attention or someone who feels they need to validate themselves?

I personally like the chase, but I like being chased even more. It's all about how you present yourself, and right now, it seems like you are doing it in a very poor manner, and women won't find that attractive.
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If something wasn't going to happen, and you gave up all hope, then by definition nothing could be coming back to you. What came back to you if something never happened in the first place?

Perhaps it is not that it came back to you, but in the absence of that which didn't happen - because it wasn't going to - something else, completely unrelated, actually took place, and came to you yet again for the first time. And this new something WAS going to happen, because it DID.

It's a beautiful cycle man. It's how I feel about bacon, and minivans.

Wow, I'm inspired.
And also hungry again..

Or in other words, no matter how badly you screw something up.. if you just stop doing it. Something else might happen that you had nothing to do with.. which you couldn't screwed up before it came to fruition.
That's an awesome philosophical thought, man.
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Wow, I'm inspired.
And also hungry again..

Or in other words, no matter how badly you screw something up.. if you just stop doing it. Something else might happen that you had nothing to do with.. which you couldn't screwed up before it came to fruition.
That's an awesome philosophical thought, man.
That's the beauty of it. Each new screw-up is an individual screw-up that can rise and shine in its own unique glory. I think.
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      09-18-2014, 09:53 AM   #11
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Well at least you realize that.

Taking your relationship fubars into OT always makes for a good time (and not for the OP)
well at least we have the Jexter stamp of approval
yes, in case you are wondering I am filled with shame right now.
I am anticipating a sign from the Mods to STFU and GTFO anytime..

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It's not skill and definitely not luck. Are you on dating sites by chance?


You need to make yourself desirable. Give them some mystery, don't throw everything about yourself into a single basket and toss it to the dogs. What's interesting about someone who comes off as desperate for attention or someone who feels they need to validate themselves?

I personally like the chase, but I like being chased even more. It's all about how you present yourself, and right now, it seems like you are doing it in a very poor manner, and women won't find that attractive.
what can I say man? that observation saved me alot of continued wall-hitting.. is that how I come off? It's hard to get ppl to tell you nasty truths to your face - but they're what need most, it's just if the listener wants to hear it
I have mom issues, you see
anywaaaay..
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This thread is already not in vain. Not to beat an immortal horse, but I've been inspired and have now begun the process of thawing out some bacon that I had frozen recently against its will. Bacon will be eaten, and all will be well with the world yet again.
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what can I say man? that observation saved me alot of continued wall-hitting.. is that how I come off? It's hard to get ppl to tell you nasty truths to your face - but they're what need most, it's just if the listener wants to hear it
I have mom issues, you see
anywaaaay..
Based on how you've talked about this girl you've only been somewhat chatting with...., unfortunately that is how you come off.

If you want some real benefit, I would reconsider how you put yourself out there and how you present yourself.
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All this for a "hi"

I really wish you'll find someone in the near future. Is it really this hard to find a date in hk?
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This thread is already not in vain. Not to beat an immortal horse, but I've been inspired and have now begun the process of thawing out some bacon that I had frozen recently against its will. Bacon will be eaten, and all will be well with the world yet again.
I like to buy Wrights Applewood Smoked Bacon, you know, that nice thick cut, hearty bacon. Not that pansy ass Oscar Meyer paper thin crap. The kind of bacon that makes your pants get tight.
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I like to buy Wrights Applewood Smoked Bacon, you know, that nice thick cut, hearty bacon. Not that pansy ass Oscar Meyer paper thin crap. The kind of bacon that makes your pants get tight.
Thick cut all the way man. CostCo hooks it up 4 packs at a time!!!

On a related topic, why don't we have a bacon smiley?
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Thick cut all the way man. CostCo hooks it up 4 packs at a time!!!

On a related topic, why don't we have a bacon smiley?
Dude, the Maple bacon is my all time favorritteee, but they don't sell the maple at Kroger, makes me one sad panda. I suffer through with the less desirable applewood.

Basically $10 for a pack of bacon, yet so worth it.

On a related topic...., why don't I have any bacon to eat right now?
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Now I want bacon
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I am all for talking about relationship misses and near misses. I am impressed the OT crowd is treating with you kid gloves.

I honestly thought you were in for an anal stretching.
We've become grimlock's support group over the years. You may want to read up on his previous posts to get a better idea.
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Bacon has undeniable, delicious powers over people that are impossible to resist.
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Can't enjoy a slice of bacon with that fat thread hanging over my shoulder.
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What, sorry can't hear you over all this bacon cooking...... Must've missed that thread because bacon was covering that part of my screen.
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